Fair-Split Policy
Equal people. Fairly shared costs. No transactional strings attached. Applies to every member, aged 18 or over.
Share a new home as equals
You are equal seekers and, if you choose to move in together, equal co-tenants with both names on a new lease. Rent is split 50/50. All living costs, including bills, utilities and other shared expenses, must be shared fairly and agreed openly. No payment creates an entitlement to affection, a relationship, sex or intimacy.
No room listings or housing offers
Members must never list, advertise or offer rooms, accommodation or existing housing to other members. Live In With Benefits is a dating platform, not a property or flatmate marketplace. You find a NEW home together when you are both ready.
No housing or living costs in exchange for intimacy
You must never offer or accept housing, rooms, rent, bills or any living cost in exchange for sex or intimacy. This is prohibited by our rules and is a criminal offence in Ireland since 2026. Consent must be freely given, without housing or financial pressure.
If this policy is broken
Breaking this policy results in account removal. We may report relevant conduct to An Garda Síochána. Automatic keyword flagging and member reports support moderation; they do not replace emergency services.
How to report
Use Report on a member's profile or in your chat, select “Housing-for-intimacy offer” and include relevant details. You can also block the person. Do not continue a conversation that feels unsafe. More guidance is available on our Safety page.